Obituary
Steven Lee Douglas, 71, of South
Point, OH, died Tuesday June 19, 2018 at Huntington Health and
Rehabilitation Center. Funeral service will be conducted 4:00 PM Friday June
22, 2018 at Chapman's Mortuary Huntington with Pastor Terry Wagner
officiating. Steve born December 21, 1946 in Huntington, WV a son of the
late George Lee and Ethel Barbour Douglas. He was a U.S. Air Force veteran,
a former police officer and a member of the VFW post 1064 and the Tri State
Worship Center. Also preceding him in death was a daughter, Kristy Lynn
Douglas. Survivors include two daughters, Kelly (Gary) Miller of Huntington,
and Kimberly Workman of South Point, Oh, seven grandchildren, Christopher,
Steven, Donnavan and Viktoria Douglas, Alexandria (James) Davis, Emily
(Stephen) Wilson and Brogan Workman, five great grandchildren, Lyric, Ivalee
and Zion Douglas, Adrianne Workman and Jarred Davis. The family would like
to thank special care givers, Rita Russell of Wayne and Joyce Baer of
Chillicothe, OH. For all their loving care. Veterans Honor Guard Post 16
will render military honors. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the
funeral home to offset expenses. Visitation will be from 3:00 until 4:00 PM
Friday at the funeral home.
Steve not only served in law enforcement, he was an active member of the
Republican Party for many years, serving as a committee man, assisting and
campaigning for men and women whom he believed would bring about positive
change. But his greatest labor in life, the passion that burned brightest
was fatherhood. He valued this role above all others. He often said that if
he only got one thing right in life, he hoped it was this. He was
faithful to his three daughters regardless of the circumstances- joy or
defeat. He was always quick to share in the life of his children and
grandchildren. The last ten years of his life, he battled many health issues
that made it difficult for him to leave home. Still, he never missed an
opportunity to be where his children were. Many will remember him for his
sarcasm and quick wit. For his ability not to lose his humor even in
hardship. He was joyful and faithful and fun. He was a good man. But perhaps
what too few knew about him was that he was generous, selfless, resilient,
compassionate, forgiving and faithful to his calling. Often, his life has
known pain and loss and loneliness. His journey has mostly been
misunderstood and undervalued and his work unseen. But he was a man of great
worth and a hero to those entrusted to his care. He did not mind that his
choices often left others confused or at times enraged. He only cared that
God would find him faithful. Many fathers are unsung heroes, doing great
acts of love behind the scenes. He was no different, but this is the time
for the world to know him fully. When you remember him-remember him the way
we will. He raised three little girls alone. When it would have been
easier to walk away, he rose up and chose us over and over again. He brushed
our hair, packed our lunches, took us shopping, learned how to buy make-up,
and drove us everywhere. He helped us plan our weddings. He held our hands
during the birth and the loss of our children. He helped raise them when
their fathers passed away. He was always watching us and watching out for
us. He ran off friends who were not good for us and made it impossible for
boys to hurt us. He taught us to value our self and know our worth. He
comforted us through private failures, disappointments, loss, loss, divorce,
addiction, conflict and illness. When our hearts broke, his broke more.
He rejoiced in our accomplishments, additions to our families, education,
career moves, recovery, and he encouraged and believed in our dreams.
He never passed judgment on us, even when we broke his heart and he was
disappointed. In those moments, he simply loved us deeper and longer until
we were strong enough to change. He never reminded us of our mistakes. He
was a man of God, a man of prayer, and a man of worship. He lived his life
in example so that we could find our way. He showed us Jesus and that has
made all the difference. His legacy is one of sacrifice and devotion. He
believed in giving everything he had away. He said to love others was life's
greatest blessing because it was eternal. He taught and showed us the
importance of being fearless in loving others. His life was lived for the
acceptance and approval of God, not man. He lived in such a way that his
children and all those that would follow could know without doubt what he
did- That nothing mattered more in this life than the work we do for the One
who called us to it. The greatest example of who my father is can be seen in
one simple action her repeated over and over during his daughter Kristy's
battle with cancer. He could only walk a few steps with a walker and then he
would need to sit for ten minutes before he could walk again. The pain in
his hands and feet made walking and gripping extremely painful. Kristy was
bedridden and mostly confined to an upstairs apartment. He would walk a
two-story ramp from his home to a car. He would take the short drive to her
home. Once there, he would make a labored walk to her door and then crawl on
his hands and knees up a flight of 13 stairs (a process he had to repeat to
leave) just to then walk across a wide room to sit in a chair by her bedside
while she slept. She asked him why he put himself through all that. She
understood how hard it was. She even said that someday there was no point
because she could not even wake up. He simply replied-You are my girl, and
this is my place, no matter how difficult it gets. I love you.
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